When you open your mouth to judge a mother, bite your tongue first.

 


When you open your mouth to judge a mother, bite your tongue first.


Pregnancy hurts.


Birth hurts.


Breastfeeding hurts.


Watching your baby cry hurts.


Not sleeping well, it hurts.


Serving everyone and being the last hurts.


Not having time for yourself - hurts.


The mother needs help, not to be criticized,


she needs love and not to be judged,


she takes care of everyone, but she needs to take care of herself as well.


Motherhood is not as gentle as it seems, motherhood is beautiful, yes, but it is very difficult.


What's beautiful is the love that a mother has for her child, that love is capable of enduring everything!


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